Whenever we talk about pregnancy and childbirth we always talk a lot about women and their problems and come out with loads and loads of suggestions as to how should they cope with their new role of becoming a new mother and the precautions they should take during their pregnancy.
Little importance is given for the new father to be and his role in dealing with the situation where the wife feels his importance and his care for her the most valuable thing in the world.
It is certainly not a matter to stay away from participating in the day to day stress that is involved during the period of pregnancy for the woman. You can make your wife feel great by telling her many small things that can comfort her a lot. While she herself is going through numerous changes in her body, lot of discomfort in the early stages of pregnancy that is experienced by any new mother, it is better to involve and ask her about the problems she is facing.
There cannot be a cure by just enquiring about the difficulties or discomforts that arise during the first trimester of the pregnant woman’s calendar. But the emotional bond will certainly make her feel confident and better and help her prepare herself to face the different stages of pregnancy before childbirth.
Engage yourself in small activities that you can do for her. Amidst all your office work making a phone call and talking to her for a while would give a great relief and mental comfort for your expecting wife. Gestures that you care will definitely go a long way in making her self -reliant and the increase the ability to cope with her periodical stress and the health problems that she may face from time to time while she is pregnant .
Generally almost in all the states in India, pregnancy is seen as a females issue and men feel, all the women, be it neighbours, relatives and the mother of the pregnant girl would be enough to take care of her. But in reality it is the contribution and care of the husband that is the most important ingredient to stay strong during her tough period as she sails through number of difficult stages during pregnancy leading to child birth.
So make sure you are available and accessible for her and for your family members call which may need your presence at any point of time back home. After all it is also a new experience for new father to be and ensure that you make it less stressful for you too as you help her cope with her pregnancy.
Wow, that is really good and very informative blog. As I am expecting a baby and I need to utilize these tips to take care of my wife. Thanks for sharing it
ReplyDeleteThe photo along with its story indeed made me remember our pregnancy story (pregakem.com)
ReplyDeleteAs during our pregnancy my husband made sure that I am totally free by taking all my responsibilities on his shoulder right from the very home basics to all other kinds of works. Also, ensuring the timely doctor visits, to a personal trainer for my exercise, making food, making food for me added to his activity list. Which made me truly feel much comfortable and special!
Very true, but I feel every couple has a different way of expressing love & taking care. Some show, some just do it without the knowledge of the other person. But i will surely add all the above points to my to-do list.
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